I Now Feel My Orgasms Anally

Tue, 01/03/2012 - 09:38
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I'm in my mid 30's and have been having orgasms since I was a teenager. During my 20's I had very low libido but have found that things are changing now! But I've been feeling orgasms differently now than I used to. Not all the time, but often, I will feel them in my bottom. Instead of feeling the contractions in my vagina, I feel it in my anus. I do like it and find it interesting, but I haven't been able to find any information on why this is suddenly happening. Until I felt it, I had no idea you could feel an orgasm there. Is this common? Thanks for your advice!

Dear K,

I don't have an answer for you about how common it is to experience orgasms anally. Have you recently initiated anal eroticism in your sex life? I do know that when I did double penetration the sensations I had anally completely over powered anything from my vagina. Seems the anal canal is a misunderstood organ when it comes to sexual sensations. Perhaps it's because there are far more nerve endings than in the vagina. Of course both vaginal and anal penetration is always combined with clitoral stimulation from my vibrator, so the clit is Queen of sensations. As we continue along our individual orgasmic paths, only one thing will remain consistent: Our orgasms will expand and contract and be different and unique throughout our lifetimes. It's fun to speculate why, where and how, but mainly the idea is to just enjoy the trip. Let me know what you personally uncover as you continue to explore your erotic self.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Anus overpowered vagina

Thu, 01/05/2012 - 20:51
Liandra Dahl (not verified)

That amazes me and also excites me intensely. I love light anal play (fingers tongues) with a willing partner (few and far between) but I really haven't had much anal sex. In fact I have only received it five times...two of which were forced upon me, the third I had a stress related seizure where I apparently growled and thrashed due to past trauma, the forth time was awesome and the fifth I had another stress related seizure but only short. Still it makes me uneasy not knowing if I will black out and have seizures. I need to explore this with someone I really really trust who doesn't spook easy and also really wants to have anal sex.

This is why I have avoided it but I do want to explore it more. I am so excited to know that I could have such massive pleasure from my anus and that it is yet to be explored. A knew sexual adventure to explore for 2012! On the topic of this I have been meaning to ask you betty, how do you give yourself an enema?

Trust is Key

Mon, 11/17/2014 - 15:33
Amy Rene

Finding someone you trust and who is as tender as you need them to be is key. I was in my 20's when I married my husband and he has always been into anal (what man isnt?) it took me a long while before I was comfortable enough to let him do more than play with it while i was doggy style in front of him. More and more it would be required for me to reach climax in that position, until finally I was asking for it. My husband is an incredibly patient man when he wants to be, we have been married 10 years now and after all his patience with me and gentleness anal has become a supurb way for me to climax now.