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  • I Can Never Seem to Get Myself All the Way There   4 days 18 hours ago

    7yeardryspell,
    You obviously love your wife and are concerned and wish to remain faithful to her or you would not be reaching out like this. It's not easy for men to bare their soul as you are so i wanted to respond.
    You both receive much love and support from each other and the only thing missing really is your need for sexual pleasure and release. She has changed and you both need to accept that but your need has also grown and you both need to respect that as well. Pressuring her into something she knows she can no longer provide would not help your relationship but you still have a healthy penis and need to fell that pleasure and release and she should understand and support that as well.
    I suggest you both talk about it in just this way and I'm sure she will understand. Take Dr. Betty's teachings to heart and focus on your own self pleasure and embrace masturbation like you have probably always needed anyway. Make time for it, turn it into something fun and exciting and, who knows, you may like it more than you might first anticipate. Also, masturbation these days need not be solitary. It's become very common for men who have embraced masturbation fully to masturbate with other safely, on-line. They find it helps increase their motivation as well as the intensity and frequency of their ejaculation which is a good thing. Who knows, you can remain faithful to your wife but may evolve into a sexual, orgasmic being you never knew existed within you.
    Marti

  • Carlin: My Orgasm   4 days 18 hours ago

    Carlin,
    I had been following Betty and you for years but had not seen this introspection until now. The struggle you went through to take the leap and bare your soul and masturbate on video for the world. It must have surely been hard to have continued through with this after having lost the support that a relationship can bring. But in a way, it may have been necessary to have ended your relationship in order to begin anew with yourself. Sometimes a relationship can hold us back, especially a traditional one, when it comes to orgamic self-actualization and the personal demands that can require. It probably enabled you to truely let go of your reservations and embrace masturbation, transforming you into the wonderful masturbator you are today.
    Like any mission, having to attend to the demands of a conventional relationship would have competed with your focus on your own orgasms and mentoring others in their masturbation. Such important work requires we dive fully into the water, giving it our all for years before we know we have made a difference. You have done tha. You have been masturbating hard and long for others and for yourself and it has made such a difference within me and within so many other women. You should know this and feel very satisfied by it. As a convers of Betty's and a lifelong dedicated masturbator, you can take my word on that!
    I would love to see more and have you talk more about your own transformation.
    Marti

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  • I'd Gone Through the Emotional Wheel & Come Back to Selflove   1 week 15 hours ago

    "How I spend my time...how much I love myself and allow that love to flow into my relationships and then out into the world is all that matters."

    So true. And SO glad that you are fine!

    XOXO

  • Ladies-Describe your 1st sexual experience with another woman...   1 week 2 days ago

    Of course, not unusual for me to have mutually masturbated when I was in my teens with a girlfriend during a sleepover. Just natural experimentation really. 
    But not until I was 40 did I really have sex with another woman. I had embraced masturbation as a lifestyle ten years earlier and had begun masturbating with other women like myself just a couple years before. On my 40th birthday, I went to Vegas for the weekend with several of these women. After returning to the room after lunch with one friend we undressed and began masturbating as usual. She spontaneously reached out and began stroking my breasts to help me out. I responded and asked her to keep stroking and shut my eyes. I then felt her tongue on my nipples and then lost control. We did oral in each other until we came and then she made me sit back and used my vibrator on me and sucked my nipples until I came again and again. It was unexpected but very satisfying.  The experience made me realize I was bi and I've enjoyed sex with women many times since. I'm fortunate to have a husband who understands and supports my sexual needs.

  • Should people be allowed to masturbate anywhere they like?   1 week 2 days ago

    I believe, in 2018, it would have finally been accepted enough to at least be allowed in bathrooms or special spaces such as is now done for lactation. Masturbation rooms perhaps, where people can go and masturbate among others like themselves and not feel embarassed.
    We all know it is a natural need, as much as other bodily functions, and healthy and normal. Many people must be out away from their homes to work or shop and when the natural urge arises, we should express not supress it.
    Dr. Betty encourages masturbation breaks in the workplace and sets a good example for us to follow. I have read of a few others but still very rare.

  • Learning Ejaculatory Control   1 week 2 days ago

    As a man who has been fortunate to have read most if not all of your books (I have a well worn copy of "Liberating Masturbation") I just want to say thanks.  I have been a dedicated masturbator and have been training my cock early and often each day for 35 years. Your books were integral in my journey to enjoy my sex life to the fullest (solo and partnersex).  I am forever grateful.

    Nelson

  • I Can Never Seem to Get Myself All the Way There   1 week 3 days ago

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  • Betty Dodson Presents: My Orgasm   1 week 3 days ago

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  • Morning Wood   1 week 5 days ago

    I have often been guilty of the same crime.  Sometimes we don't even realize how much we get into our masturbation sessions and how it might disrupt our partner's sleep. 
    I think most healthy men get morning wood, and I find that a shower can be the best place for my morning wake up session.  
    I believe erections are a gift and should not be wasted whenever possible.  
    Nelson

  • The Bodysex Effect Deepens & Grows the Longer You Do the Work   1 week 5 days ago

    Betty,
    So true. Just like our own orgasm, the bodysex effect Deepens & Grows the longer we do the work on it and the more we are rewarded. That you have returning participants, not out of mere training needs but to relive the experience together is a testimate to that. We can truely transend our masturbatory limits once we learn our earlier expectations were self-limiting and uninformed.

    Marti

  • “I’m Here Because Of My Lineage. The Shame Ends Today”   1 week 5 days ago

    Glad you appreciate it Nelson. Not many men are willing to open up like you have. You make a good point I had not thought of.  That no one thinks twice about a guy spending hours in front of TV or games. Many guys spend hours a day developing their biceps or sculpting wood ducks for thar matter. Some even risk their lives on hobbies like climbing. Such hobbies can consume much but make life worth living. That you choose to spend hours a day developing your cock should be thought of no different. And the stroking and ejaculations you enjoy take you to ever new heights without ever having to leave the ground like climbing would. You obviously gain so much from your masturbation hobby and it makes life worth living.
    I think I understand and agree more than ever now and encourage you to keep going with that analogy. It's wonderful and so true.
    MartiB

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  • Found Masturbation Videos of Employee   2 weeks 1 day ago

    This may be my favorite post ever!  I can't begin to express how much this speaks to me, and how I was at that age.  I was also fortunate to have discovered Betty's writings at an early age, and putting what I learned into practice has been one of the great joys of my life!
    I truly hope that the story above can become more common.  I know it would be a benefit to all involved.  All I can say is that I sure wish it had been me!

    Nelson

  • “I’m Here Because Of My Lineage. The Shame Ends Today”   2 weeks 1 day ago

    Your comments are much appreciated.  It's always nice to get a woman's perspective.  Glad my hobby reference made you laugh, but the truth is, no one thinks twice if a man spends many of his evenings in front of a TV or video games, I just have preferred (and frankly needed) the ability and the immmense pleasure from frequent and for extended periods of masturbation.
    Nelson 

  • “I’m Here Because Of My Lineage. The Shame Ends Today”   2 weeks 1 day ago

    As a man nearing 50, I can look back at the evolution of the way I perceive what I now have come to refer to as my masturbatory lifestyle.  While I have been a frequent masturbator for over 35 years, I hardly discussed it with anyone in my teens and early 20s.  The partners I had in my mid and later 20s were always aware of it, and accepted it (as it did not interfere in any way with our partner sex), but did not embrace it.  In my late 20s I began to consider it a hobby.  As I got older, I began to talk about it more openly.  I got mixed reactions, but over time, many more positive ones than negative ones.  It now seems like women my age (at least many that I have met) are not only accepting but appreciate my lifestyle and find it erotic and desirable.  

  • Working From Home = Working on my Orgasm?   2 weeks 1 day ago

    Nelson, While I was in today responding to another of your comments I agree with,  I saw this also. You can see from my comment in 2010 that I too realized benefits from working from home. I worked from home for just over 5 years, from mid 2009 to and of 2014. For me, it really facilitated a masturbatory lifestyle and helped me become far more orgasmic. When I first starting to experiment with masturbation breaks during those working days, I never imagined I would have enjoyed it to much to the point of centering my life around it. Masturbation and orgasm is now something to be enjoyed throughout the day, multiple times, and after those 5 years and getting used to it, I knew there was no turning back.
    I've read that it has sine become common to masturbate more often among those who can work-from-home. That it has even helped lift masturbation out of the corners of the evening and make it an activity to be enjoyed at any hour an more often. It's such a positive change and I'm glad you and I were a part of helping it become that.

    Marti

  • “I’m Here Because Of My Lineage. The Shame Ends Today”   2 weeks 1 day ago

    Nelson,
    I think it is simply so open minded of you and ahead of your time to have come to terms and then embraced masturbation as a hobby so young in life, especially given the repressive, backwards attitude society had during those years.  I'm sure it was a struggle and so you were brave and are better off for it to have persisted masturbating like you did. The need and pleasure must have surely been intense for you and so no telling what illness you avoided but it is a shame that society was not yet ready to support your masturbation like it is today. It's good you can now share it and be accepted for it as that will surely help you take it to new heights. I think women tend to be more open and understanding of this than men and so whenever a man can transcend their hang-ups about it and open up with me, they earn my respect. If he can admit that to you he can admit anything and it helps build trust, especially for the rare man who can admit to masturbating so much that it's a hobby for them.  LOL
    That's Dr. Betty's promise and gift to women, thousands of whom are benifiting every day, or more, and thanking her for it. We need more men to embrace it as a hobby and be open about it. Think of what we could all gain and learn from that.
    Marti

  • Hello from CA   2 weeks 2 days ago

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  • Can Male Porn Stars Really Ejaculate Across the Room?   2 weeks 2 days ago

    I was fortunate to have the ability to shoot clean over my head on a regular basis when I was in my late teens and 20s.  I had started edging by then (it pays to be a voracious reader sometimes) and noticed that the mind blowing orgasms were accompanied by extremely cum drenched forceful and powerful ejaculations.  I would estimate the quantity of these to be 2 or 3 times what I had experienced previously (or when jacking off quickly and not edging).
    I never thought much about it at the time, and while I had some lovers comment on it (the quantity), it wasn't really embraced by anyone until I met my wife who enjoys it immensely.  
    I can still shoot far (but not as far) but in order to really maximize it, it has to be after a long (at least an hour) porn fueled edging session.   

  • Working From Home = Working on my Orgasm?   2 weeks 2 days ago

    Reading this makes me realize how lucky I was to have worked from home a few years ago.  While I only worked from home for about a year, I relished each day.  Between saving an hour and a half of driving time and taking a 30 minute lunch break instead of an hour, I had a full two extra hours to play with, and, trust me, I "played"!  There was always a little extra pleasure knowing I was able to indulge when most others I know could not!  In addition, I think being able to look forward to self love session made me more focused and more efficient....who knew?!

  • Gender Roles are Created by Society Not Biology   2 weeks 2 days ago

    Indeed, we all knows that Gender roles are cultural and personal that help to determine how males and females’ life, features, speak, behave etc. our society teach kids about gender roles, how to behave with elders, youngers, in society as well as about professionals roles also like about nurses, doctors, housewife, workers etc. it was nice to read small words on Gender roles.

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  • May: the Month to Celebrate Masturbation   3 weeks 4 days ago

    Time to celebrate my favorite month of the year, May aka National Masturbation Month!
    For real, to paraphrase the late Timothy Leary - let's all turn on, turn on, and stroke-a-thon!
    Embrace the lifestyle!  I once called it a hobby, but that just doesn't do it justice.  Through dedication, focus and practice continue to maximize your pleasure.  Push your limits and reach new heights!  I look forward to hearing how others are planning to enjoy the lifestyle during this special month!

    Nelson