Ladies-Describe your 1st sexual experience with another woman...

Tue, 09/08/2009 - 21:03
Submitted by sexycat33

I am a 34-year-old female and have never had sex with another woman.  I've been thinking a lot lately about what it would be like.  I would love to have that sexual experience at leat one time.  So far I've been too timid.  I'd love to know from all you ladies what your 1st sexual experience with another woman was like!

Two firsts for me

Fri, 05/18/2018 - 01:35

Of course, not unusual for me to have mutually masturbated when I was in my teens with a girlfriend during a sleepover. Just natural experimentation really. 
But not until I was 40 did I really have sex with another woman. I had embraced masturbation as a lifestyle ten years earlier and had begun masturbating with other women like myself just a couple years before. On my 40th birthday, I went to Vegas for the weekend with several of these women. After returning to the room after lunch with one friend we undressed and began masturbating as usual. She spontaneously reached out and began stroking my breasts to help me out. I responded and asked her to keep stroking and shut my eyes. I then felt her tongue on my nipples and then lost control. We did oral in each other until we came and then she made me sit back and used my vibrator on me and sucked my nipples until I came again and again. It was unexpected but very satisfying.  The experience made me realize I was bi and I've enjoyed sex with women many times since. I'm fortunate to have a husband who understands and supports my sexual needs.

First time with another woman

Thu, 09/14/2017 - 13:14

[= medium]My first with a women was just a few years ago and with my current girlfriend. She and I had been friends for about 5 years.We did everything together, she was and is my best friend, but never any sexual things. Things at home with my husband were ok, but sex was boring and I wasn't being satisfied. I started watching porn and would then masturbate to satisfy my needs. I would start out watching regular man on woman porn, but always ended up watching lesbian porn and being so turned on. I started fantasizing and wondering what it would be like with another woman. Anyways, this one day I was over at her house. It was summertime, hot out so we weren't wearing much, shorts and halter tops. We had just had lunch and were sitting together on the couch talking. We started talking about sex and some of the things we had done. I hadn't done much and most of what she was talking about was with men. So I asked her, have you ever kissed another woman? She said she had. Then I asked her if she had ever had sex with another woman. She said she had, a long time ago when she was young and she told me the story about it. I got so turned on. Then she asked me why I asked. I told her about how I had been feeling lately. She said she understood. Then I asked her if I could kiss her. She just smiled at me, leaned over and we kissed. It was a small kiss, more of a peck. I leaned in and kissed her back, a bigger kiss. Then, she put her arms around me and we started french kissing, holding each other close. I could feel our bra-less tits rubbing against each other through our tops. My nipples got so hard and I could feel my pussy getting wet. I started rubbing her tits through her top and then, she started rubbing mine. Her hand went under my top and she was squeezing my tits, rubbing my nipples. I did the same to her. But then she stopped. She said we shouldn't go any further, she was afraid that it would ruin our friendship. I said ok and I understood.I didn't want to stop, but I did. I got up and excused myself to go use the bathroom. Actually, I went to collect myself. I got in the bathroom and decided I was going for it. So, I took all my clothes off and went back out. As I came walking out, her eyes were all over me. She said, Oh my God! I walked up to her and said, I'm willing to take that chance. I was inches away from her. She put her hands on me, touching me all over. She stood up, stripped and took me in her arms, our tits pressed against each other, our tongues in each others mouths, our hands all over each other. She laid me down on the couch, she knelt on the floor, she was touching and kissing me all over, sucking my nipples, her hands spreading my legs open, then I felt her mouth on my pussy. I came immediately. Her tongue licking me, her fingers exploring me, sucking my clit, fingering me. I came again, screaming so loud. She got up and laid over me, 69, and I started eating her. It was delicious. Her pussy was so soft, so sweet, I devoured it, making her cum. We must have ate each other for an hour, cumming over and over. We got up and went to her room. We made love all afternoon. Showered together and have been having sex with each other ever since. We have sex anywhere and everywhere. She taught me how to make my husband a better lover and he is now. Now he and I have great sex. [/]
[= medium]So, that was my first time.[/]
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Glad I'm not the only one

Fri, 12/15/2017 - 03:10

I thought I was the only one in the world that experienced that. LOL!!! Yay! I'm not... :)

First time with another women

Sat, 08/19/2017 - 18:14

I'm  a more mature women, 65, about 15 years ago I started to get feelings about women. I was single and when with my friends at the pool at home when they stayed and when they were undressing it made me horney and I even found myself masturbating thinking about them.
I wanted to try it with a women but didn't  know how to go about it.
I used to buy female porn mags to help me frig off, I noticed a chat line number which I nervously rang and had a dirty chat with another women, I did this 2 or 3 times a week and then Found out about visiting female escorts, I was nearly 60 by then, they charged £120 an hour, they were late teens early 20's I'm not ashamed to tell you it was and is the best orgasms I've  had.

My First Encounter

Thu, 06/22/2017 - 16:10

Happened when I was 16.  I was a sophmore and she was a junior in high school.  It all started with her talking about her boyfriend giving her "mind blowing" orgasms when he went down on her.  I confessed that no one had ever given me oral and even though I had been masturbating since I was 12, and that I had let several boys finger me, I wasn't sure I'd ever really had an orgasm.
She started to describe to me her technique to get herself off and I was surprised at how excited, and wet I was getting.  I didn't know what to say when she paused and said "do you mind if I just show you"?  I just sat there with flushed cheeks wondering what was next.  Was she going to let me watch her get herself off? Well my question was answered when she gently pushed me back on the couch and slid my shorts and panties off in one smooth motion. 
I was scared, excited, pretty much every emotion I could have passed through me.  She leaned up and sweetly kissed me on the lips then raised my tee shirt and started to kiss her way down to my mound.  She first made circles around my clit with her tongue and then started to lick from bottom to top with each stroke ending on my clit.  She then inserted one finger and then a second into my vagina and started to work them in and out while she flicked my clit with her tongue.
My body was on fire!  All those emotions I had earlier were gone and all I could think of was the extreme pleasure I was experiencing between my legs.  I'm sure she sensed I was building so she picked up the pace and started to make a "come here" motion the her two fingers inserted in me.  That did it, and I exploded!!  I shook, trembled and damn near passed out.  I had never felt anything like that before and knew this wouldn't be the last time for damn sure!
That was the end of our session that day but I learned to re-pay the favor and our bi encounters continued until she went to college a year later.  I had one other encounter when I was in college, but that has been almost ten years ago.  


Wed, 06/15/2016 - 20:14

I had been curious for a long time and after i turned 35 i wanted to do something about it. About a month  ago i invited a female friend to come around during the week for a swim. I had feeling for her but did not know how she felt about me. I put a two peice swims on that was very small. When she turned up we talked for a while until she asked to go for a swim. She took her dress off and she had a one piece swimmers on that fitted her tight with high sides. It looked really nice and showed off her boobs and her crouch. We swam for about 1hr and i said i was getting out to get some lunch ready. I got out, dried my self and went inside. Sue got out and followed me inside. She asked if she could have a shower , so i got her a towel and led her to the bathroom. As i finished getting lunch sue walked out with the towel on. As i looked at her i started to get wet. We sat on the lounge opposite each other and eat our lunch talking. I looked down as we had lunch to see she had  opened her legs and she had nothing on. I started to get wet as i had never seen another pussy. After lunch i went and had a shower and come out with only a towel on. I was getting so turned on. When i came out sue asked if she could sunbake before going home. We went outside, she took off her towel and laid down naked. I was getting so turned on. I sat on the chair next to her with my towel on talking. I got the nerve up and opened my legs so she could look straight up to my pussy. A a few minuites she smiled at me, looked straight up between my legs and asked if i wanted her. I nodded yes, she got up on her knees took my towel off and kissed me. I felt her hads all over my body, squeesing my nipples and then down to my pussy. We kissed some more and i started to feel her. She did not feel the way i thought, she felt so smooth, we fingered each other untill we both cum. Sue worked her way down sucking on my nipples, put her tounge in my belly button and then down to my pussy. I was in heaven as she sucked my clit and put her fingers in me. It was the best orgasm i had ever had. After i  had calmed down i returned the experience of sucking her nippled and my 1st time licking a clit. She held my head hard into her as i licked her clit as she cum. The taste was great as i licked  her until she finished cumming. We kissed some more and this time she put her tounge in my mouth which started to get me wet some more. We sat naked outside for a while talking and sue said she had wanted to have me for a while only did not know how to ask me. She then told me it was her 1st time as well. We have been seeing each other know since. She has asked if i want to join her husband and her with my husband to show them.   

My first real experience

Sun, 12/13/2015 - 04:53

I had some crushes in the past and also some encounters and experiments. But I had my real full sex with a woman only this year after I turned 35. I met this woman for whom I was babysitting her daughter. We were good friends for 3 years. But then she started showing signs of interest in me. She was appreciating my features like thighs, legs, boobs etc. As we started getting closer discussing these I was getting very aroused every time she talked to me. She said she was getting excited too. We spoke about sex almost every day. Then one day she called me to her house. I was at my peak that day about my craving for her. She was very excited also. We sent our kids to play. I picked up courage and proposed that she allow me to touch her bod. I could see her blush but was saying no no. Then she said ok and let me unbutton her shirt. I got my first orgasm when I just touched her boob. I rubbed them for some time and she started moaning. I could not resist from kissing her. We kissed for almost 2 minutes. She then stopped me and said she wanted to see my boobs. Before I could open, she rushed and pulled my shirt and bra out. She could not wait lol. She could not stop touching and squeezing my boobs. Then before we knew we were completely undressed and on bed. She still had some body hair and that excited me even more. Every time I sucked her tiny boobs she asked for mine. We had loads and loads of sucking. Then I went down to remove her panties. It was soaking lol. She had cum several time. I knew it was working. So we went for it. We tribbed for some time and both of us saw heaven. She was asking for more and more. I could not just stop it. Then I heard my husband at the door as he came looking for me. He found out what we did. The. Her husband came to know. My husband knew and he was cool. Her husband was mad. Now she pretends she is hetero but I was the one who made her do it. I did really initiate it but she was interested more than me and also had more orgasm than me. Anyway, it was an experience I will never forget. I am just hoping I can do it all over again with her. Every time I remember that evening I masturbate!

Husband getting mad

Mon, 11/07/2016 - 00:09

The husband was getting mad because his wife had sex with a woman? How insecure is he anyway.
I would like nothing better than my wife having the experience of sex with another woman. I have told my wife many times to go for it.

So True

Sun, 01/01/2017 - 12:44

Oh absolutely. Women don't typically fall in love with the woman they have fantasies with, they just wanna try something they've never done before. I've always had the fantasy to do it with a girl, & ive told my boyfriend. He says he would just love to watch the whole thing.

Wow, you guys.

Tue, 07/06/2010 - 00:03

I've never been with a girl before, but I definately don't dislike the idea. It's such a turn-on for me but I'm pretty sure I'd just chicken out at the last second if given the opportunity. I can only hope that if I did get the fortitude to go through with it that it would be as good as it was for all of you.

I'm an advocate of the idea that nobody's completely straight and I've admitted (to myself, at least, but I wouldn't deny it if a friend or non-relative asked) that I'm bisexual. Big deal.

I think that realisation came when I was reading an interview with Bat For Lashes and I realised, looking at the semi-nude pictures accompanying the article, that I had a strong desire to lick her nipples and play with her small breasts and kiss those luscious, perfect lips of hers. Out of nowhere, this was, but I accepted it as part of myself and just let the thought wash over me as I realised that I did, in fact, like girls.

Just not as much as men.

My first

Sat, 05/15/2010 - 02:24

I remember being about 9, and I don't know how it started, but my friend and I used to have sleep overs and found it felt good to grind our pubic mounds against each others, basically. Like I said, I don't know how we got the idea, but we did know if we were caught, we would be in trouble though. Parents...

Anyway, my first orgasmic experience with a girl was with my best friend at the time, we were sophomores in high school and we took a trip to Germany with some of our friends from school. We started kissing one night while we were drunk, backed off, and then that started our friends-with-benefits relationship. We were kissing one night - completely sober - and shoving each other against walls, taking turns being rough with each other when we felt the urge to. I pushed her down on the bed and started grinding against her. It was a great orgasm.

My 8th grade girlfriend

Wed, 04/14/2010 - 18:20

I don't know if this counts as another woman since we were just girls at the time, but my first sexual experience with one was in the girl's bathroom.  I leaned in and kissed her.  Her mouth was softer, somehow, than a boy's and her lipgloss was sweet.  A few weeks later, we would pop into the bathroom for some abrupt nipple licking.  The thought of someone discovering us was thrilling; maybe that's why I liked it so much.

My first!

Tue, 04/06/2010 - 11:35

My first was not really much different from the other posts. I was about 17 and in high school. Me and some other girls were at a sleep over and doing a kind of "truth or Dare" game. One girl dared to me to make out with her so I did. We all giggled about it, but later she and I made out some more but this time I stuck my hand into her panties. I remember how excited I got as my fingers first touched her pubic hair and then as I mover lower and slid my middle finger through her folds over her clit. I was sooooooo wet that I wanted her to do the same, and she did. We spent much of the evening looking at and fingering each other's pussies. I think we tried to see how many fingers we could get into each other with-out hurting each other. Kind of silly, but so much fun.


I didn't try eating another girls pussy unti college. That was with my freshman room mate. We use to lounge around our dorm rooms naked. Since boys were not allowed on the floor after 8:00 pm we could wear very little nad feel safe that some guy would not see us and get a cheap thrill. My room mate and I were both naked and discussing, of all things, our "Bushes". We were considering shaving our pussies, but didn't know if we should go bald and how our "Kitties" would look with out hair. A few beers later into the evening and we were talking about girl on girl sex and wondered how it really was. We decided to see if we could do this girl-girl thing and soon I had my face just inches from her pussy. I remember thinking, "Gosh, am I really giong to do this?" I thought, well I'm here I might as well try. I remember first just kissing her pussy lips at the top near her clit. It felt really funny having her pubis hair brush against my face. it was soo soft and wet and the arroma drove me mad! by the end of that semester, we would god down on each other at least 3 to 4 time a week.


To this day I still engage in some girl girl fun with a close friend of mine. I'm much more at ease and toy's are involved. Sooooo much fun. We shave each other pussies at the begining af summer to prepare for the bathing suites. That ussually leads to my tongue on her clit and her tongue on mine. Getting close to that time of year. Can't wait!

By the way, I still love a really hard penis, and as so many of my posts have indicate, I love watching cum squirt out of my boyfriends penis. (Yummy)

Oh my that is sooo hot, make me wet!!!

Sat, 07/22/2017 - 20:42

 Love it 

I was out of town with my

Mon, 04/05/2010 - 12:27
suem (not verified)

I was out of town with my coworker, it came to be bed time and she hinted around that she wanted to get a porn movie, i had always wanted to be with another woman after having spent years masturbating over the thought. I was 23. So i hoped i knew where it was heading . After getting a movie i just went for it and moved over to her bed. We kissed and i slipped my hand between her legs and away we went. It really was that easy but i guess we were all on the same page. I am 43 and still masturbate thinking about it

My first experience with a

Mon, 10/05/2009 - 13:43
Carlin Ross

My first experience with a woman was just like Christina's.  I was at a slumber party when I was 12 or 13 and someone had the idea of "practicing" french kissing so we'd have skills for the boys.  There we were in our pajamas on our sleeping bags rolling around making out with each other.  Soon the kissing turned to rubbing and grinding our bodies against each other.  I don't remember having an orgasm.

The best part was that we'd break up giggling every so often.  Thinking back on it it was very much like one of Betty's Bodysex groups minus the masturbation.  I think every young girl should have her first "experiences" with her girlfriends.  It's safe and so much fun.

Start slow with massage and kissing with a friend or someone you meet when it feels organic.  Just play and see where it goes.  Don't worry about pussy eating skills.  When it's time to be sexual just have some almond oil or lube around, kiss her, and play with her clit.  You can move on from there.

"most people are fools, most authority is malignant, God does not exist, and everything is wrong" Ted Nelson

I Was In My 30s

Tue, 10/06/2009 - 13:33
Miss Moonlight

It was few years ago and I was in my early 30s.  The beauty was the softness which made it very special.  I have had 2 more experiences since, although I think I would regard myself as "straightish" as opposed to bi!  However, I think all women have something in them which attracts to same sex too (some stronger than others).  Hence girls are far more tactile.

By the way in my last experience she spent almost an hour undressing me.  One garment went and then lots of cuddles and holding.  I love being undressed and the slowness was beautiful and something very few men achieve.


Mon, 10/25/2010 - 21:22
Miss Moonlight

My last contribution on this subject was June 2009.  It's now October 2010.  The2 mentioned above has now increased to 5.
I still remember my first time so well, I was working away from home and it started with a coffee, she then started to stroke my hair and then....
Up until then I had never knowingly seriously considered sex with another woman.

I was the same way when I

Fri, 11/05/2010 - 20:29
Christina Cicchelli (not verified)

I was the same way when I was with a woman. I must have been 15. It was at a sleepaway camp for artists, writers, and performers. She was 17 and beautiful, unlike anyone at my high school. I remember this image of her coming out of the shower. She unwrapped her bath towel and shook out her hair, letting the water sprinkle all of us in the hallway. She had just colored it a deep orange. And I was so curious about her, so overwhelmed. Eventually, one night I went into her bedroom to listen to some CDs. I listened to Bjork for the first time. I don't know how it happened really. One moment she was sitting close to me (or I to her) and she wanted to touch my hair. And I wanted to touch hers. Then we kissed. And somehow we ended up masturbating and making out with each other until curfew (when I had to run back to my room across the hall). I went down on her and she on me. But, at that time, and at our age, that really wasn't important. We just liked touching each other. That's the fun part about being with girls at that age, all you want to do is touch and play. Hell, it's fun at any age!
"Illusion is the first of all pleasures" - Oscar Wilde

Was curious for years but didn't happen until my 30s

Sat, 09/03/2011 - 19:30

Like Moonlight, I wasn't sexually intimate with a woman until my 30s. It was a friend of a friend. It was both nerve-wracking and exciting at the same time. Unfortunately, the experience was soured by the fact that she turned out to be a pathological liar and did not tell me she had herpes after the fact (yah nice huh?) I got tested and luckily, I was fine. But that bad experience didn't deter me. I have a good friend who is bi and we've been friends and flirted and always had a connection and she always knew I wanted to be with a woman (and we had exchanged naughty emails and texts in the past so we definitely were leading up to being together). The first time with her was amazing and we have been together on and off since then (which was about four years ago). I experimented online first with women - exchanging emails and even indulging in some fun, naughty phone and cyber sex but nothing beats the real thing. It's been awhile since I've been with my friend and would love to be with her again - unfortunately, we are a few hours away from each other and there are no females I've met close by who I'd like to be sexually intimate with.
Just remember not to push yourself - it will happen when the time is right and wow, it's incredible. It really is so different from being with a man. The touch and softness of a woman - so beatiful and sensual. 

my bestfriend

Tue, 08/04/2015 - 21:10

I need a little advice. I have a friend who I was curious about but of course I was to scared. Years passed and nothing. About 4 years later we were drinking and she kissed me closed mouth. I got so excited but its been a year nd a half since then nd nothing. I'm tired of waiting so I gave up. Then she called me to go out this weekend 080815 for her bday. I don't want to go but I really want to go if I knew she would stop teasing me. I'm so attractived to her. Do I go r no lol.

me too

Wed, 11/18/2015 - 04:18

I have the same issue. My friend kissed me . It got me so excited then 2 years passed and nothing. We don't talk anymore every now and then. I think she's scared because her sister came out the closet and she was pisted. Well I'm not gay or bi but she really turned me on. I wanted to try it but now that's it has cooled off I'm ok. I guess lol.

I didn.t know at the time

Wed, 08/16/2017 - 11:06

I am 30, single and have only been with two guys.  My boss have me her keys to a cabin in the mountains to take some time off.  It was on a winding tree line road, just wonderful.  The first night I sleeped well and got plenty of rest. The next morning I felt horny and decided to masturbate.  I was getting worked up but just not having an orgasm.  I needed something to drive me over the top.  I went and sat on the porch just in my robe,  I started rubbing my clit under my robe.  It was exciting sitting outside and rubbing my clit.  I really wanted more.  I was getting really horny.  I grabbed my chair and walked it to the edge of the road where the driveway began.  Anyone driving by could see me.  I was just too nervous to try anything.  There were no neighbors and only one car would go by everyonce in awhile.  I wanted to do this.  I remembered seeing a mask on the nightstand in the bedroom.  one that would cover your eyes to block our the light to help you sleep. I went and grabbed and and brought it out to the street with me.   I put the mask on and sat their next to the road. I could feel myself getting really wet,  now I was excited. I could not see a thing.  I opened my robe to the world and started careesing my breast.  Everything felt extreame.  I could barely stand it.  Nothing was going to get in my way from an orgasm now.  I moved my hand down to my soaked clit.  I spread my legs to the world and started rubbing my clit.  I was so horny and excited.  I could feel my orgasm start to build when I heard a car coming.  I wasn.t going to stop I was too close.  I heard the car stop out front it was too late they could see me and what I was doing.  I did stop.  I had goose bumps all over my body  I could not believe what I was doing.  Someone got out of the car and started walking toward my.  I started to orgasm.  It was so intense.  I tried not to make any noise but I could not help it.  I moaned as I had the best orgasm ever.  I layed their with my legs open knowing someone was standing right in front of me.  Then suddenly I felt a soft tongue lick my expose vagina.  I jumped but let it happen. That wonderful tongue licked up my wettness and worked its way up to my clit.  I had a more intense orgasm then before.  I almost past out my breathing was so heavy.  When I finished this person quickly went back to their car and started the engine.  I quickly pulled the mask down to see them driving away.  The driver was a woman.  My first lesbian experience and I did not know it, until it was too late.