Finding My Inner Ethical Slut

Fri, 02/15/2008 - 00:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Betty-

I am 23, and have been single for 3 years since moving to New York, working a ton and having occasional unfulfilling casual sex. I read the book CUNT shortly after moving here, and not only discovered who you were and your greatness, but it opened a new door to my sexuality and femininity. Since then, I have been studying your books and words avidly, loving myself regularly, spreading your wisdom to all my favorite women, getting my PC muscle in shape, smiling more because of all the loving I get to be having with myself, and adoring every minute of it all.

I am a huge fan of the "ethical slut" idea, which you advocate strongly in your book "Orgasms for Two". I feel proud to know what I want and how to go about getting it. I am now in a non-committed highly sexual relationship, and it is the best sex I have ever had! I am a much better lover now that I know myself and I am confident to state what I want and need when it comes to partnersex. I haven't introduced a vibrator to our repertoire yet, but hopefully soon! You are absolutely amazing and inspiring, and you have helped me become a woman I admire. I am in awe to think of all the women's lives you have changed. I am warmed by the thought of being in the same city as you!

You have helped me to find my strength, in my words, my actions and my beautiful Cunt. And of course, it's always nice to teach those boys a thing or two. :)

I even sent your books to my Mom. Thank you so much for your courage and wisdom.

Much adoration - H

Dear H,

Thank you for acknowledging my work. Its emails like yours that truly brighten an old sexologist's days. Be on the look out for our new website that will debut soon. My new partner Carlin Ross is a techno whiz and we're gonna rock the internet. Our latest tag line for BETTY DODSON ONLINE is EMPOWERING WOMEN, ONE ORGASM AT A TIME. You are a perfect example of what a woman becomes once she claims her own sexuality. Congratulations! Stay in touch.

Betty