pc muscle

Post-Abuse My Vagina is Chronically Tight & Dry

Tue, 02/13/2018 - 08:45
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

As a child and early teen I experienced sexual force by an adult repeatedly. I would squeeze my vagina very tight to prevent penetration. It only angered the adult and ultimately did not prevent him.

As a result when I finally had sex with my someone in my age group as a young adult I cried. Many years later with grown children and I'm menopausal now I find if I am not active my vagina closes up. I have a partner now and after a long time of celibacy he re-opened me and it was very painful.

Think I'm Having Orgasms When I Pee

Wed, 08/19/2009 - 14:53
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty and Carlin

I am writting because i have a doubt, and I didn't find much information about it in internet.

Sometimes, when i need to pee I get a very intense feeling, similar to an orgasm, in my whole body, specially in my nipples. The feeling gets more intense if I am aroused, but sometimes I get it without beeing aroused.  The feeling is great, so I usually try to enjoy it, but my question is why does this happen to me, and does it have a bad consequence?

Does Masturbation Keep You Tight?

Wed, 07/08/2009 - 11:16
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Does masturbation help keep your vagina tight?

World's Strongest Vagina

Tue, 07/07/2009 - 08:48
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Talk about a strong pc muscle.  I love that she's taken her talent and become an entrepeneur with her own vaginal ball:

A Russian woman has set a new world record, lifting a 14-kg. (28 pound) glass ball with her vaginal muscles. Tatiata Kozhevnikova of Novosibirsk, aged 42, has been exercising her intimate muscles for fifteen years, and has already made her entrance into the Guinness Book of Records as the possessor of the world's strongest vagina, she proudly told Life.ru.

"After I had a child, my intimate muscles got unbelievably weak. I read books on Dao and learned that ancient women used to deal with this problem using wooden balls," she said. "I looked around, saw a Murano glass ball and inserted it in my vagina. It took me ages to get it out!"

Urinate When I Masturbate

Mon, 06/29/2009 - 11:56
Submitted by Betty Dodson

What am I doing wrong? I tend 2 urinate when using my magic wandor even using my hands. I've even done this while i was getting oral sex!! This is very embarrassing when your with someone!! HELP!!

I Urinated During Clitoral Orgasm *blushes*

Tue, 02/24/2009 - 16:59
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I have been using an Hitachi Magic Wand for a number of months now with no problem reaching an orgasm within the first few minutes without anything out of the ordinary happening. However, the past two times, during orgasm (clitoral) for what I thought was ejaculation turned out to be urine.

31 & Never Been Penetrated

Thu, 01/08/2009 - 15:41
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I am a 31 old female who has never been fully penetrated. I find full penetration is too painful. Is there something wrong with me? I have been to the doctor and nothing physically is wrong with me. I would love to experience true sex. Can you please help me?

When I Orgasm, I Poop A Little!

Mon, 11/10/2008 - 12:48
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dr. Betty-

I really hope you can help because I've never been able to find any info about this or even find someone who believes me. When I orgasm, I poop a little. I don't know if I'm actually pushing without realizing it or just loosening my sphincter, but it happens every time. I don't have any continence issues and go to the bathroom before I get busy, so it's not an issue of nature calling. Now I'm so self concious about it that when I even get close to orgasm I start to worry and end up stopping before I hit the finish line. I've tried to just not care and just clean up after, but it's frankly gross. Why does this happen, and how can I stop it?

Help with Kegels!

Sun, 10/19/2008 - 11:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I am trying to tighten my PC for my pleasure and his pleasure, but come away FRUSTRATED!! I can stop the flow of urine, but wonder if I am really isolating the right muscles. It seems my anus is stronger than my vagina. When I lie on my back and insert a finger to do kegels it feels like my muscles tighten from the bottom to top instead of from side to side...Is that normal?! Plz help!!

Genital Fitness

Sat, 10/18/2008 - 18:13
Submitted by Carlin Ross

#2 in our video podcast series.  From kegels to penis curls, Dodson and Ross cover everything you need to know about your pc muscle. Start squeezing! 

HELP! 2 Virgins About to Have First Time Sex

Wed, 08/13/2008 - 14:50
Submitted by Betty Dodson


I'm a young woman from Romania and I'm currently reading Orgasms for Two and I just HAD to stop to write you an email. While I don't agree with some of the radical ideas on marriage and love in your book (but then I'm only 25) I found what I read so far to be ...liberating. I know your inbox is probably flooded with emails so I'll keep this quick but still hope for an answer.